Us women have our share of disgruntlement when it comes to men and their kissing complaint department. But that doesn’t mean that we couldn’t stand a little improvement. After all, kissing is technically a team effort, so I think we’re all grown up enough to handle a little criticism from our teammates. Let’s see what these five guys have to say:
Dick, 31– Darting your tongue in and out of my mouth, as if you were trying to stab my liver. And then you lick my face as if I were an ice cream cone. Get control of yourselves, ladies.
Mark, 43- The best kiss is always the very first one of the evening. You have been anticipating it, but just didn’t know when the right moment was going to be. You want to try to keep this elevation of anticipation throughout your entire kissing session. If you keep the motions varied as well as your level of arousal, I will begin to fall into the moment and relish in the idea that I have no idea what you’re going to do next.
Brion, 24- You do not have to suck our face off, per se, but a little bit of perceived loss of control during the passion of the moment will do wonders for our libido. A man finds losing self-control in the heat of passion incredibly arousing, as do a lot of women, I think. But women oftentimes wait for their lover to do the losing of control and forget to do a bit of it themselves.
Julian, 19- Be a bit of a tease, but not in a bad way. Part of what makes the first kiss so good, is the anticipation. So you’ll want to keep that same anticipation for things to come. For example, after a moment of intense heavy petting and kissing, pull back, look me in the eye, and wait for that desire to build again. Then go back in, but this time, make small sensuous kisses all around my mouth. The key is to make me think you are going in for an intense kiss but only give soft slow kisses. This is what I call playing the anticipation card.
Bill, 49– Bad kissers – they are the kind who push their tongue into your mouth like a shovel digging for gold, but worse still are the ones who do not know what to do with their tongue at all. All I can say is, Don’t hate me ladies, for I do not know what I do either!
It would appear that some of us ladies could use to learn better saliva control, but we’re not pointing any fingers. There really is not a whole lot that can go wrong with a first kiss so long as you are in the moment, in the mood, and of course… really into the guy!