It doesn’t matter if you’re single or attached, flirting can be a rewarding and fun tool. Many women assume that relationship opportunities come by the way of asserting beauty, intelligence, and confidence wherever an attractive guy is nearby. What studies actually suggest, is a woman’s willingness to flirt, and do it effectively, is what ultimately persuades any man to make a move, and this includes getting your husband to reacquaint himself with foreplay. Today, amidst recent surveys that claim U.S. women are the least coquettish in the world; we welcome you to achieve more of what you want, simply by getting your game on with these six flirting must-haves.
1. Smile
Whether you are looking for a date, or the choicest cut of ham at the deli, a broad smile will open all sorts of doors. People are naturally drawn to confident, beautiful women, but they are particularly encouraged by the ones who welcome them with a warm, inviting smile. A grin will make almost any woman more approachable, regardless of your physical attractiveness. Studies suggest a smile can add beauty points to your appearance, making it practically one of the cheapest cosmetic beauty treatments around.
2. Stop, Drop, and Flirt
The old saying tells us to stop and smell the roses, but singles will fare best to stop and get their flirt on. The world has become such a detail-oriented place. Women need to schedule a time for just about anything and everything they do, including when she works, eats, plays, relaxes, and gets her freak on. Women are so intent on maintaining this path; they often forget that getting there should be half the fun. In other words, no matter where you are or what you’re doing, keep your eyes/ears open, head up, and a smile on your face. You can’t schedule love; you’ve got to be ready for it at all times.
3. Jeepers Peepers
People like to be acknowledged, and establishing eye contact gives people the recognition they desire. When it comes to first impressions, research suggests that engaging your eyes will instantly make you appear more confident, stable, attractive, and likeable. However, there is much more to this phenomenon. The locking of eyes is one of the defining moments of infatuation in many couples. Studies suggest that the simple act of meeting with a guy’s glance, can be enough to promote an oxytocin flood within his brain, initiating a buzz of exhilaration worthy of chocolate, nicotine, or even heroine.
4. Elbow Room
Those who are shy, must rely on their flirtation techniques to bring the interested men to them. Often, these demure women feel most comfortable in groups. However, you must allow some distance between you and your gal pals, as this is what will make you more approachable. It is hard enough for a guy to walk up to a woman he doesn’t know, without the intimidation factor of having a studio audience surrounding him.
5. Extinction of the Flirtaciousauras
Flirtation is nature’s way to remind us that we are social, sexual beings. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a little playful exchange, provided you can do it responsibly, and know where to draw the line. The key to flirting for those who are currently attached, is not so much hindering this natural instinct, but remembering to keep it up with your existing, long-term partner. Flirting is a fun experience, associated with feelings of forbidden lust and passion; two key ingredients in every romance novel. However, it should also become a permanent part of your mature relationship. If you haven’t flashed that come hither stare at your partner for a while, why not take it out for a spin tonight.
6. Natural Instinct
Studies suggest that most guys have a difficult time discerning between a friendly gesture and a sexually driven flirt, so why fret yourself over the difference? There are all kinds of techniques that can be used to get a guy’s attention successfully. However, the most important points are to remain approachable, give yourself some room to be noticed, and surrender to your natural (animal) instincts.